38 Things- The Conclusion

26. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
27. Don't be a snob. Guys can be intimidated and give up easily.
28. Guys talk about girls more than girls talk about guys.
29. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.
30. A guy would give his right nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.
31. No guy can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.
32. Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesn't mean he represents ALL of them.
33. They love it when girls talk about their breasts.
34. When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you to be his.
35. Even if they refuse it all guys are ticklish on the ribs.
36. Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts.
37. When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.
38. Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life.

The End

I hope this gives some insight into what men are thinking and how their minds work. One of my New Year resolutions is to try harder in all my relationships. I got this from a friend on MySpace, and I thought it was interesting. I am going to open myself up to new relationships, and we will see where it goes from there. I hope everyone has a great New Year.

38 Things Continued...

14. Guys love you more than you love them.
15. Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful or gorgeous. If a guy uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole hell of a lot.
16. No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is a key.
17. Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.
18. Guys think WAY too much. One small thing a girl does, even if she doesn't notice it can make the guy think about it for hours, trying to figure out what it meant.
19. If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.
20. If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he probably faking it and is spazzing inside.
21. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Guys rarely say that.
22. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
23. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.
24. When a guy tells you that you are beautiful, don't say you aren't. It makes them want to stop telling you because they don't want you to disagree with them.
25. When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

MORE LATER....

38 Things A Woman Needs to Know about a Guy

1. Guys are more emotional than you think. If they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer than you think to let you go, and it hurts every second they try.
2. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
3. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
4. Guys will do anything just to get you to notice them.
5. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend or ex-love-interest. Unless they're going for the let-her-complain-to-you-and-then-have-her-realize-how-wonderful-and-nice-you-are-method.
6. A guy who likes you wants to be the only guy you talk to.
7. Boyfriends need to be reassured often that they're still loved.
8. Guys don't care how gorgeous you are, if you're a bitch-Good-bye!
9. Giving a guy a hanging message like, "You know what?..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.
10. Girls are guys' weaknesses.
11. Guys are very open about themselves.
12. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice unless he asks.
13. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

More LATER....

My Cooking Abilities

Ok, I tried my cooking abilities tonight. We shall see if I kill anyone. I made cheesecake bars as Christmas presents to the teachers I work with. They don't look right to me, but I am no cheesecake expert. I hope they turn out alright, if not, I will know never to make snacks for Christmas presents ever again. Let's hope my cooking abilities are worthwhile for another day.

A Reminder

In high school, were you the one that got left out and didn't fit in with the other kids? Well, I definitely was! I didn't like high school at all. It all came down to money and popularity. I couldn't afford the newest, coolest clothes so I wasn't accepted by the majority. I can remember being so proud because my mom said I could get one pair of jeans from Brass Buckle. I thought, "Woo Hoo, I can be cool for once!" When I got to school, I was informed that a few other girls already had a pair of jeans just like those. So I was behind with the current trend again! I couldn't win for nothing. So after I graduated from high school, I swore that I could care less whether or not I saw my classmates ever again. I didn't go to my ten year class reunion, and I really considered going to the next class reunion. I am pretty sure that is a big no no now because I was reminded how superficial and mean my classmates can be. I figured I would extend the friendly branch to a few of my classmates. I tried to add a few to Myspace. One of my classmates accepted my invitation and I thought maybe I was making progress. Then, yesterday I found out she deleted me as a friend. Once again, that dagger was stabbed right in my back. I am back to my first philosophy, and that is I am me and I am not going to change for anyone! If that means, I never see my classmates again, so be it!

Happy Holidays!

Christmas is nearly here, and I will be honest and I don't know if I am ready for it. I have had a hard time this year getting in the Christmas spirit. I am trying really hard to be positive but have felt myself sliding backwards. That needs to change! I did watch my favorite Christmas movie, How the Grinch Stole Christmas with Jim Carrey. For some reason, every time I watch that movie it helps me get motivated for Christmas. It is pretty scary that a ugly, green creature gets me motivated. But he does! I have found out the my mom's dog, Ciera, does not like the Grinch. She barked, growled, and lunged at the television every time she saw him on the TV. It was funny, never thought dogs actually watched television. So if anyone reads this blog, Happy Holidays to you and your family. Here is to a better 2008!

Reality Strikes.....In a Positive Way

Yesterday reality struck in a positive way. I always am doubting myself and really not giving myself enough credit. Thursday is game days for our junior high. The school I am working for was playing the school I graduated from. It probably sounds sadistic, but I have no problem with my high school team getting their rear end kicked. Our junior high coach asked me about the other team. I told him that we should have no problem beating Ingalls. He told his assistant coach that, and the assistant coach said, "Then, we have nothing to worry about, because Lisa White is one of the most honest people there ever was!" I was shocked when he told me that. Maybe I need to believe in myself more and realize people do know my real character. Needless, to say, I was right. Our junior high beat my old team 50 to 0.